20 +Montessori-style ideas you HAVE to try with your children!

Montessori inspiration is all over Instagram right now. It’s more than just a fashion statement though – adopting Montessori ideas in your own home are really beneficial for all concerned!

Whilst attending a Montessori pre-school would set you back a fair bit in terms of cost, there’s no reason at all why you can’t borrow some of the practical life elements to use in your own home. Read on for some of our favourites.

Adopting practical life activities are great for two reasons:

  1. They make your child more independent, which frees up your time;
  2. Independence leads to confidence. Children love that feeling of doing things all by themselves.

Age Recommendations:

All of these activities are suitable for toddlers and pre-school aged children. I’d recommend starting around the age of 2.5 to 3. Use your best judgement of YOUR child and their capabilities.

small boy watering sunflowers

Here are some suggestions and activity ideas for each zone of the house.


In order to make practical life a possibility for toddlers and pre-schoolers, they need to be able to reach the main workstation. We have IKEA FÖRSIKTIG stools in several zones of the house. They are easy enough for the children to move independently and can be stowed away easily too.

Ideas to try:

  • peeling and slicing a hard boiled egg;
  • washing plates/ loading the dishwasher;
  • making a sandwich;
  • helping to prepare dinner – e.g. making pizza or kneading bread dough;
  • making juice;
  • washing and peeling fruit and vegetables.


Educational Benefits:

  • Strengthens the muscles in the hands and develops fine motor skills;
  • Helps children understand teamwork and collaboration in order to get a job done quicker.


children love helping out in the kitchen. Try teaching them how to make juice, peel a hard boiled egg or even prepare dinner

Dining Room

Depending on the space you have in your home, child-sized chairs and tables can really help children gain independence. There’s a big gap between a high chair (which can feel ‘babyish’ to toddlers) and the adult-sized dining room furniture.

We we use the IKEA LÄTT chairs and table, which is just big enough for two.

Ideas to try:

  • show children how to lay the table correctly;
  • allow them to arrange flowers for the dining table;
  • clear plates away.


Educational Benefits:

  • teamwork and collaboration;
  • promotes social skills;
  • real-life numeracy: counting the knives, forks and spoons needed.


let children help prepare for mealtimes by teaching them how to lay the table


Lower clothes racks so that your children can reach them easily – this means that your child doesn’t have to rely on your assistance to get items down which should speed up the process of getting ready in the mornings!

We also added a DRÖMMARE mirror from IKEA. It’s made from acrylic plastic, so you don’t need to worry about breakages or cracks.

Worried about inappropriate outfits?

This is definitely a learning process, however to start you could:

  • remove and store items that are out of season;
  • provide a choice of two outfits.


Educational Benefits:

  • fine motor skills: buttons and zips take a lot of getting used to!;
  • cognitive skills: remembering which order clothes to be put on;
  • gross motor skills: balancing to put trousers on;
  • understanding of appropriateness of clothes according to the season and occasion.


lower clothes racks so children can become more independent when getting dressed


Teach good hygiene young, and it’s much more likely to become an ingrained habit. But here’s the thing, your child can’t exactly adopt good habits independently if they can’t even reach the sink.

Whilst many traditional Montessorians would suggest a low basin for hand washing, it isn’t always possible and a stool can work just as well.


  • adding a low mirror so your child can see what they are doing. Ours is a IKEA perspex mirror, placed so the children can see when washing their face and teeth.
  • keeping a washcloth and comb in a little basket for accessibility.
  • making hand-washing fun – check out our sister site, Teach Investigate Play, for a fun mermaid soap DIY to encourage handwashing.

Quick Tip

All of these activities are brilliant for building independence, but you can make them even more beneficial by narrating the activities. For example, when making a sandwich, talk through the process and the key words used. ‘First we butter the bread’ (butter the bread together), then we add the filling and so on. This is also known as procedural language and is super helpful when teaching children to follow instructions.


More Joy, Less Overwhelm.

Montessori style practical life activities are just one way to make days at home with young children easier. In the Playful Days at Home Starter Kit, learn 10 Essential lessons:

  • The Importance of a Daily Rhythm
  • How to fill your Child’s Cup
  • The True Meaning of Play
  • Your Role in Play
  • The Steps to Independent Play
  • Simplifying Play at Home
  • Creating a Playful Home Environment
  • The Role of Outdoor Play
  • Raising an Independent Child
  • The Path to Seamless Transitions

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Sian Thomas
an image of This Playful Home founder, Sian Thomas. The photo includes a photo of her daughter when she was around 18 months old

I’m Siân (rhymes with yarn), a play advocate, proud parent to three, and former teacher. My mission is to infuse more joy and less overwhelm into the lives of parents. Discover play-based activities with me that not only make learning FUN but also forge deep connections with your young learners, creating memories to cherish forever.